Harsh but Real

The relation between man and woman (male and female) is spoiled. Tell me if I am wrong, but how is the atmosphere when you go to parties, clubs and concerts etc, and just a careful look would show how everybody is pretending to win the game of seduction. Here is an example:
"Guys go to clubs.
A-  I like that girl.
B- go talk to her.
A- not now man after she get drunk.
I swear I heard this so many times. And just out of curiosity I asked one of my close friends who is a girl after I told her about this. And she said the same things happen with girls gossiping and talking inside the toilets. Really some disgusting things happen. And what is the killer, Man relationships starts by a kiss or having sex while being drunk (not in a clear state of mind) and then we wander about what is going wrong.
What kind of people do we praise and shout for? singers, actors in series and for what! a girl watch a movie or a TV serie and she sees the prefect man. This gradually and subconsciously will build a picture of the man that the girl desires. Same thing applies for men. Someone may argue that: come one we are not kids we can watch and enjoy but we do not let it affect us, but you know what :Be Careful because psychology does not say so.
The war of arrogance. "I can do it myself, I do not need a man". a sentence that can be heard nowadays from lots of woman. This is a tragedy. I am not blaming those women but I am sad for the existence of such fact. Where is the man that knows how to care and respect his woman and commit to the responsibilities thrown at him. Where is the woman that let the man take care of her -, yes take care of her, it doesn't mean she cannot take care of herself but how beautiful it is to just let a man take care of it.

Respect is gone. Except for a few, Men are not Men anymore and Women are not Women anymore.

What is Marriage??

Marriage is stability and a profound base to lead a good principled life. The purpose is to satisfy the basic need of humans of having a partner with who they can share. Marriage gradually brings children. Children are awesome, so Marriage is Awesome. People think that they should be ready to get married but I think the other way around marriage get you ready to face life. What someone needs to get married is a decision in the mind to stand up and accept the responsibility which most of the time people prefer to avoid or delay for no logical excuses.

The social system almost everywhere made it look hard to get married. It should be simple, easy and straight forward. It is an instinct for God's sake.